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Although we're pretty lucky to have access to hundreds of singles on all of these dating apps out there, it's important to take a break from online dating from time to time.

Why? Well, you need to give yourself a chance to meet someone organically.

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Not everyone wants their “how we met” story to be a “we both swiped right” story. Even though dating apps are super convenient, they're, unfortunately, putting a stop to the meet-cute.

Meeting someone in real life is already a first step in the right direction: There's a cute “how we met” story to tell, an immediate connection formed and an idyllic memory to look back on.

Not everyone wants their 'how we met' story to be a 'we both swiped right' story.

Many women prefer meeting men in real life because it creates the opportunity for a more natural connection. A face-to-face first meeting allows you to get a feel for his personality, his sense of humour and his ability to converse in person, none of which can be determined on an app.

It's these detriments of dating apps that waste our time when someone we meet up with isn't at all who we thought they'd be IRL, and it's these wasted nights that motivate us to meet men out in the real world, instead.

Here are 16 places to meet single guys IRL, as well as some tips on how to talk to him once you spot him:

Send him a drink at a restaurant

I can't count the number of times I've had a drink at a busy restaurant, and I could see at table of attractive men nearby. Instead of talking about how cute they are, why not send one of them a drink?

Ask his server what he's drinking, and ask them to bring him one from you. I tried this once, simply as a social experiment, and it was both hilarious and successful. I live tweeted the whole thing.

Ask his server what he's drinking, and ask them to bring him one from you.

After I sent him the beer, he, of course, came up to my table and said thank you, and he even sat down at my table for a bit. We exchanged numbers, and he commended me on my confidence, saying that nobody had ever done that before.

At a party

It's so easy to meet single guys at parties, but we often make the mistake of hanging out in a corner with our girl friends all night, and we're too shy to approach anyone.

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The guy you have your eye on won't notice you if you're tucked away in that same corner all night, so here's the deal: If you want a guy to notice you at a party, you should be standing in a high-traffic area.

If you want a guy to notice you at a party, you should be standing in a high-traffic area.

Stand by the fridge where all the beers are. Park yourself by the water cooler. Stand by the food. You'll meet lots of men this way. You can also check for cute guys holding almost-empty beers and say, “I'm going to grab myself a beer. Do you want one?”

Always go to parties with your outgoing friends because if all else fails, you can get them to march right up to the guy you want to talk to and say, “Hey, I want you to meet my friend!”

At a hardware store

Hardware stores are one of the easiest places to meet men, especially since so many of them shop there. I was at Home Depot the other day, and it was hot-guy-central.

The moment you spot a guy buying tools who catches your eye, walk past him, stop and say, “Do you, by chance, know what I need to buy to install my floating shelves?”

Then, you can start chatting about home decorating, what he's buying and why. It's an effortless conversation topic that can easily lead to a date.

Line-ups

Any sort of line-up is a great excuse to chat with someone.

If a cute guy happens to be behind you in line at Starbucks or in front of you in line for Chipotle, don't hesitate to pass the time by striking up a conversation. Line-ups are boring, and he'd probably rather chat with you than check his phone for the next five minutes.

Any sort of line-up is a great excuse to chat with someone.

If you're at Starbucks, for example, try tapping him on the shoulder and saying something like, “Hey, if I buy a brownie will you eat half?”

While volunteering

Single guys do volunteer sometimes. And the type of guy you'll meet while volunteering will probably be a good-quality, nice guy you can bring home to Mom.

If you're in the same volunteering group, you can chat with him, mention you're going to be volunteering at another event next weekend and ask him if he'd like to join you.

At a coffee shop

Plenty of successful, entrepreneurial men work all day or all night at coffee shops. And the popular, busy coffee shops almost always involve sharing tables with strangers.

Plenty of successful, entrepreneurial men work all day or all night at coffee shops.

Sometimes, only certain tables have an outlet to plug in your laptop, which is a great excuse to ask to share the table (since you need that plug). Once you're sharing a table with him, you can make conversation by asking him what he's working on.

At the dog park

The dog park is a great place to meet men, so if you don't have a dog, you need to borrow your friend's dog ASAP.

You can say things like, “Aw, my dog likes your dog. We should exchange numbers so these new best friends can meet up again.” Or if you see a guy petting your dog, you can say, “He seems to like you. He doesn't like everyone, so take that as a compliment.”

On the subway

Similar to busy coffee shops, public transportation often involves sitting next to a cute stranger. If you spot an empty seat next to a cutie, sit down and ask him what book he's reading, introduce yourself and make small talk. That small talk could result in numbers being exchanged.

At a sporting event or a sports bar

Head to any baseball game, hockey game or football game, or even to sports bars to watch the game. Trust me, lots of cute single guys will be there. And they'll definitely be game for a distraction between periods.

If you're both cheering for the same team, you'll already have common ground to start a conversation.

If you're both cheering for the same team, you'll already have common ground to start a conversation. Even if you're cheering for opposing teams, you can joke around with each other about it, aka you can flirt with each other.

Waiting areas

Whether you're waiting to board the same flight at the airport or in the waiting room at the dentist's office, you have an excuse to chat with someone when there's time to pass.

For some reason, we ladies always think we need an excuse to talk to a guy. Well, if you need one, passing the time in a waiting room is a great reason to strike up a conversation.

For some reason, we ladies always think we need an excuse to talk to a guy.

Grocery stores

Whenever I go grocery shopping, I always see men shopping by themselves, and there are plenty of excuses to talk to them.

You can walk right up to him and say, “Excuse me, where did you find that stir-fry kit? I love how the veggies are already chopped up for you.”

Usually, grocery stores also have line-ups at every check-out lane during peak hours, so choose the line-up with a lonely man in it. You could even joke around with a playful “Hey, thanks for saving my spot in line!” and pretend to budge in front of him.

In an amateur acting class

Plenty of people join amateur acting classes or improv groups as a hobby. It's perfect for meeting new people, as you're often paired up with someone and forced to become fast friends as you act out a scene together.

At the gym

Guys like picking girls up at the gym because they love the way we look when we aren't wearing makeup or trying too hard. It's a casual setting that makes it easy to talk to someone, even if you're just pretending you need advice on whether or not your form looks good.

A shared hobby

A shared hobby or activity is a great way to meet men in real life.

Everyone likes dating someone they share interests with.

If you're both on the same soccer team, you're both in the same outdoor education group or you're in the same running group, it's a great foundation to start a relationship. Everyone likes dating someone they share interests with.

A set-up

Don't be afraid to ask your friends to set you up with someone. Everyone knows an eligible bachelor or two, and not enough people organize set-ups these days.

On vacation

People seem to be the best versions of themselves when they're on vacation. They're relaxed, confident and often have zero inhibitions when it comes to meeting new people.

It's incredibly easy to pick up a guy at the pool and ask him if he can recommend a good restaurant nearby or if he wants to join you on a snorkeling adventure.

Last updated on January 29th, 2021

If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Negril with a dating guide then you are in the right place. It will not take us long to inform you about where to pick up single women and also cover some great ideas for a date night.

Table of Contents

The nightlife and where to hook up is where we will start off before moving on to meeting single Negril girls during the day and how you can use online dating sites to get the ball rolling before your trip. Date night ideas and all sorts of things to do during the day will also be discussed.

Most of this post will revolve around 7 Mile Beach where you will find the majority of the best pick up bars and where most tourists stay. If you are looking for more places to travel check out our other Caribbean dating guides.

Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars

We always like to start with a list of singles bars and nightclubs to pick up Negril girls so here ya go:

• The Jungle at Norman Manley Blvd
• Rick’s Cafe at West End Road
• Drifter’s Bar at 1 Mile, Fisherman’s Beach
• Alfred’s Ocean Palace at Norman Manley Boulevard
• Bourbon Beach at Norman Manley Boulevard
• Ivan’s Bar at West End Road
• Roots Cafe at Roots Bamboo Beach, Norman Manley Blvd
• Collette’s at Fire Station Road, Negril Harbour
• Red Dragon Bar at Red Ground Road
• Cotton Tree Bar at Norman Manley Boulevard
• Chances Bar & Grill at Norman Manley Boulevard

The main area for singles nightlife is going to be along 7 Mile Beach. This is the heart of the city whether the sun is up or down.

The Jungle may be the best place to try and hook up with girls in Negril after dark so if you want to do a lot of partying and looking for a one night stand try to get a hotel near there. One of the nice things about touristy beach towns is that they are usually pretty easy to figure out.

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The nightlife is all along the beach so you can just take a walk until you see a singles bar with lots of sexy ladies and then head inside. On the other hand beach towns in poorer countries will have many prostitutes at bars and they aren’t always that easy to spot.

We aren’t going to say all Jamaican girls at Negril bars are prostitutes, but many will be and that may turn some readers off. We will cover this more in our last section.

If you will also be trying to get laid in Kingston we covered that topic as well.

Meet Negril Girls During The Day

Keep it simple, girls will come to this city to enjoy the beach so meet them where they plan to be. All along 7 Mile Beach you will find girls out tanning, swimming, or going to the nearby beach bars.

Outside of that you can try to go on one of the booze cruises or take a tour if you see a group of sexy women signing up for one. Usually we would say to meet single girls as they shop but in Negril you don’t find any good malls. The best may be Times Square but it is pretty small.

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One thing we haven’t mentioned yet is that when you visit a beach town like this you never can really be sure what you are going to walk into. Some weekends there might be hundreds of hot single girls visiting Negril to party and get laid.

The next weekend 90% of the women may be married and the girl to guy ratios could be awful. When a city revolves around tourism you are at the luck of the draw.

There will always be the bar prostitutes, but we know many of our readers are going to have no interest in them. So how do you meet a sexy Island girl before you arrive in town? Use Caribbean Cupid.

It is the biggest online dating site in Jamaica and if your goal is to hook up or find a girlfriend on your trip it can definitely help you out. There are plenty of single girls in Negril using it, some will want to find a husband while others may just want to get laid with foreign men.

No matter what you are after your chances of success will increase greatly if you pipeline on Caribbean Cupid before you arrive and have some date nights lined up.

Negril Dating Guide

Now that you know about the best ways to meet single girls near you our Negril dating guide has plenty of tips on how to show them a good time. Be on point during your date night and your chances of getting laid will improve greatly.

The good news is that since you are at a tropical paradise it won’t be hard to get her in the right mood. Any of these romantic restaurants or cocktail bars could be great for a Negril date night:

• Blue Mahoe Restaurant at West End Cliffs
• The Lodge Restaurant at Tensing Pen at West End Road
• Pushcart at West End
• Rockhouse Restaurant at West End Road at Rockhouse Hotel
• Kenny’s Italian Cafe at Norman Manley Blvd
• Zimbali Culinary Retreats at Canaan Mountain
• Canoe Beach Bar at W End Rd
• Jimmy Buffett’s Margaritaville at Norman Manley Blvd
• Kuyaba Bar at Norman Manly Blvd

Day Date Ideas

Remember how we were saying that girls come to Negril to enjoy the beach? Well once again keep it simple and head to a quiet area of 7 Mile Beach for your day date.

Bloody Bay Beach or Booby Cay can be perfect for this. There are numerous options for fun things to do at or near 7 Mile Beach like:

• Scuba Diving
• Snorkeling
• Horseback Riding
• Booze Cruises
• Parasailing
• Ride Waverunners

You could also go cliff diving at Rick’s Café which we linked above or head to the Kool Running’s Water Park. If you are with a sexually adventurous girl you could head to Hedonism II which is a world famous swinger’s resort in Negril.

Or for something a little more relaxing then that you could head out to these cool places with natural beauty:

• Barney’s Hummingbird Garden
• Dunn’s River Falls
• YS Falls
• Mayfield Falls

If you want to take the perfect girl away for a romantic weekend visit Nassau in the Bahamas, or if she doesn’t have a passport head over to Ocho Rios.

Tips For Tourists & Expats

We aren’t going to go too in depth with the travel advice but there are some important things to mention and we also want to go over the Negril dating and nightlife culture again. The local currency is the Jamaican Dollar and you get around 140 of them for every US Dollar as of our latest update.

As far as where to stay goes we covered that above but you definitely want to be close to 7 Mile Beach. There are a wide variety of hotels and resorts here, just be close to the nightlife if you want to party and maybe get laid.

One downfall to this city is that it really is extremely touristy. Everywhere you go from the moment you arrive touts will be trying to sell you all sorts of stuff, most of which you will have no interest in.

There will be lots of marijuana around, just remember that it isn’t legal and while you probably will have no problems smoking a joint on the beach it might be safer to do it in your room. Speaking of weed every year during the first weekend of March the Stepping High festival is held, stoners will love that event.

Now for the nightlife and dating culture, this is a pretty poor country and there aren’t a lot of jobs around. In this city pretty much all of the jobs revolve around tourism, and there will be many ladies of the night out trying to make money off tourists.

Many of the local girls in Negril bars are prostitutes, far more than you might expect. If you have a girl who is way out of your league coming onto you then she probably will want to get paid if you hook up.

Enjoy Dating Negril Girls

This is a fun city to visit and you can definitely have a great time relaxing on the beach here. As far as trying to hook up in the nightlife goes it will kind of depend on who else is visiting when you are.

Hope for a massive girls trip to be going down when you are in town. If instead there are a bunch of stag parties the ratios may not be good and getting laid for free could be a struggle.

You can offset the luck a bit by meeting those single women on Caribbean Cupid before you come so you know you have some date nights planned out before you touch down. That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Negril with our dating guide, enjoy your time here.